BedStats is a private, local-first intimacy journal for adults who want a calm record of their relationship life.
Log the moments that matter. Keep track of mood, wellbeing, and connection. Plan ahead. Your story stays on your phone, where it belongs.
— LOCAL-FIRST, NO ACCOUNT, NO TRACKING —
• Your data lives on your phone, not on our servers
• No sign-up, no tracking, no ads
• The essentials are free — your app lock, backup, and export are never paywalled
• Your story can't silently vanish: back up and export on your terms, anytime
• Unlock with Face ID, Touch ID, or your passcode
• Switch to a discreet home-screen icon when you want one
— LOG WHAT MATTERS —
• Solo or partnered entries
• Multiple partners per entry, each with their own details
• Activities, wellness, and safety notes
• Protection preferences and reproductive health tracking
• Initiator, place, duration, personal ratings
• Mood, feelings, and free-form notes
• Photos and short videos, stored locally
• Customizable forms: hide fields you never use, rename the ones you do
— SEE THE PATTERNS —
• Wellbeing entries and optional daily check-ins
• Frequency, streaks, and average duration
• Per-partner insights and history
• Safety coverage at a glance
• Monthly calendar heatmap
• Charts for protection, solo vs. partnered, and initiator
• Wellbeing-vs-activity trendline
• Map of entry locations (optional)
• Live heart rate captured during a session, with a chart in the editor (optional)
• Apple Health sync (optional)
• On-device Apple Intelligence summary of recent patterns (optional, iOS 18.1+)
— HOME SCREEN, LOCK SCREEN, CONTROL CENTER —
• Activity Heatmap widget
• Recent Entries widget
• Days Since Last Entry counters
• Filtered Entries, Metric Counter, and Quick Actions widgets
• Control Center widget to start a Quick Entry in one tap
• Live Activity and Dynamic Island timer for in-progress entries
— ON YOUR WRIST —
• Apple Watch app to start and stop a Quick Entry from your wrist
• A live timer that keeps running, even when the screen sleeps
• Live heart rate, captured during the session
• Grant permissions once — no questions to answer every time
• Complications to begin logging in one tap
— PLAN AHEAD —
• Schedule planned entries with reminders
• Quick-start timer for live logging, with Live Activity
• Notifications only when you ask for them
— PARTNERS, YOUR WAY —
• Add partners with pronouns, default preferences, and health dates
• Works for monogamous, open, poly, or casual setups
• Built for every gender, orientation, and relationship style
• Hide partner names if you want extra discretion
— PRIVACY, SERIOUSLY —
BedStats was built around one idea: your personal life is nobody's business but yours. So the app is local-first by default. No account, no cloud, no analytics. Just a quiet, adult journal that stays on your phone.
• Biometric lock with Face ID, Touch ID, or device passcode
• Alternate discreet app icons
• Local backup and export, on your terms
• No third-party trackers, ever
BedStats is for adults who want a more intentional approach to their relationship life, whether you're tracking solo, as a couple, as a polycule, or you just prefer a thoughtful log over another gamified dashboard.
— A SMALL, INDEPENDENT TEAM —
Questions, bug reports, ideas? We read every email. BedStats is actively maintained and shaped by the people who use it.
Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
